Proud new owner of a Bongo, and first time poster here...please be gentle

I've a 1997 model converted by ECC. We've done a couple of short trips in her without too much trouble, but i'm still trying to figure out how the electrics are all wired up....the starter battery died the other day, and i had to get a jump-start, even though i thought i'd been quite frugal with the use of electricity.
It's fitted with a PMS3V power management system, leisure battery, fridge, twin 13amp sockets, a 16a mains hookup.
* I've not ever managed to get the 13amp sockets working....should I assume that these will only work if I'm connected to the mains (which I've not done yet)?
* Should both batteries charge simultaneously if I'm on the move, or plugged in to the mains without any other intervention from myself?
* The 'Battery Condition' indicator on my PMS3V....this means 'Remaining Charge' rather than the age/quality/condition of the battery right?
* Can anyone estimate what the charging rate would be while on the move? I've only seen them at 'Normal' and under.
* The fridge i notice remains on unless i turn it off manually...as in, it remains on if the source selector switch remains 'Off' on the PMS3V. Did the battery die because my fridge is drawing power from the car battery instead of the leisure battery?
* Other than the fridge, the only power i find i've needed has been for phones (USB from the 12v lighter socket) and a radio, which is rechargeable from 240v mains (meaning i have to charge it in my house before leaving). It would be great if the radio would charge while on the move, and that phones/ipads could be charged from the leisure battery. What are my options here?
Apologies if these are stupid questions. One day I might be in a position to actually offer advice on these forums, but for the time being I appreciate any thoughts you have!
Thanks again for your time
Tom x