Only had our Bongo 1 week and 2 days now, all going brilliantly...just did big 4.5 hr drive down from Manchester, absolutely flawless...

...the other day I was sorting out electrics, (Zig unit fuses, tap pump keeps blowing a fuse etc), leisure battery was low, so was charging it with a charger, just plugged it onto the points in the engine bay. (Should of unplugged the normal leads but stupidly did'nt) was charging it fine, then I found our electric hookup lead, plugged it in the side of the van and this would obivously of started charging the lesiure battery too...Doh!, its done something to it....the leisure battery is still running some lights and stuff but does'nt charge any more....
Main battery is fine, alternator fine.
Is there a way to reverse the polarity back if that is what has happened. Some website says to drain battery completely and charge from scratch, should I just buy a new leisure battery, looks like its been around a while any way.
Cheers for any advice Jon
Oh...also a quick one, how does everyone cope with sleeping in the roof, when the other half needs to get up in the middle of the night..does it get really annoying having to roll back out the way to lift the hatch.. Have'nt got one of the bongo mattresses yet...downstairs layout does'nt leave much room for 2 people to sleep. Hmm?