its your choice, your the man on the spot, ive done 4-5 without changing the gaskets, didnt use any extra sealants or owt, the secret i think is to wet the gasket as above and dont overtighten the bolts, this pulls the pan out of shape and is then a right barsteward to get straight again to ever seal properly again.
from the sound of what you have done i would leave it alone now, run it and check regularly for leaks, if it does leak you will loose all the oil very quickly, or run it at too low a level and do a lot of damage to the internals, as you have said damage may already be done in the original fault with the gearchaging etc.
just keep listening out on the front street, if you hear a loudish silver bongo going past your house, dont worry its just muz doing a fly past looking for a landing strip.

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