This is the second time this has happened to my partner's manual drive bongo.

18 months ago my partner broke down in traffic when she suddenly couldn't engage any gears in her manual bongo. It was taken to a Bongo specialist garage and the clutch was deemed to be faulty and replaced.
Today I took over driving duties on a 4 hour trip up country. I have driven it a number of times and noticed that on the approach home along B roads with roundabouts i.e. requiring slowing down and use of gears, it seemed very difficult to get it into any gear, requiring quite a bit of force. I thought it was odd but put it down to not having driven it for a while!
As we reached the final T junction I had to come to a full stop but then could not enage any gear at all. My partner tried and couldn't either (so not just me!) and we both remembered that this was pretty much the same symptoms as last time although it was very sudden when it happened to my partner 18 months ago.
We've just managed to free wheel it in to our drive as it was all downhill and noticed that we can engage gears when the engine is off and the clutch depressed. We put it into first, started the engine and managed to postion the vehicle where it is normally parked but noticed that it was difficult to pull it out of first gear, my partner had to pull it quite hard to disengage it.
I'm assuming that we can't have knackered a brand new clutch in 18 months and wondering if this points to something in particular?
Thanks for any pointers,
Dan