After a shopping trip of a couple of hours went back to the car to find the lights still on and the battery flat.

Now rather than going round the car park asking if any one had some jump leads
we went to find a garage to get some so we would always have a back up, nearest shop 15 min walk and we were told they shut a 1 so it was 12.30 and off we went got there at 12.45 they shut at 12.30

walked back ready to phone the AA, knowing I had a leisure battery and willinton kit trying to work out what I could do to connect the leisure battery to the starter without a jump lead.
Popped the bonnet and looked at the set up and noticed the terminals were 1 inch apart accross the split charge relay.
so I got the wheel brace and shorted the terminals while my wife and boss turned the key.
Started first time
so a car with a flat battery was started with a wheel brace, and never called the AA