Firstly, thanks to everyone who has offered advice - it is very much appreciated, even if some of it is not what I wanted to hear. Cheers.
So, had another go at bleeding again on Saturday, with the help of my missus this time. It took over 2 hours, but finally bubbles stopped. I'd done the 2.5k rev thing to get the thermostat open and kept on with the bleeding process for another 20 mins after the last bubble. All was looking well. Took it for a drive with mixed driving (around the village, down a fast bit, back around the village again. All good with 11 o'clock on the temp gauge.
Next morning, checked header tank and all was well. Fired up and left running for 5 mins. Still good. Went off down the road and stopped after a mile. No water coming out of overflow. Carried on and after 1/2 mile temp gauge decides it's more comfortable at 1 o'clock. "Oh dear, what a shame" I said (or words to that effect). Turned around and headed back home and the gauge goes back to 11. So, I carried on my journey for another 10 miles and headed back. No problem. Great! It was just a stray air bubble eager to join its mates, I thought.
Later that day, another trip - 5 miles out, 5 miles back. All is good until on the way back temp goes to 1 o'clock again. Took it steady to nurse it home but it was having none of it and temp gauge went for the big 'H'. Pulled over and had a look up front - water pouring out of header tank. Decided to let it cool down and then top it up, but I'm on a narrow country lane and after 3 or 4 minutes a van comes up behind me wishing to pass. I reluctantly start up to move down the lane to a passing place and notice that temp is back to normal. Crazy! Anyway, I drove home (about 4 miles) and it was okay until I was almost home and the gauge started to rise again.
If the scrap yard had been open on Sunday I would have driven straight there, although I have calmed down now and am having another go. Today I checked the bottom hose, below the stat, and could see a lot of crud around the joint. Could this cause such an issue as this? Sorry, picture wouldn't attach even though it is only 480px and 24k! I had a similar issue a couple of years ago and traced it to a tiny pin-hole in one of the small pipes coming from the head. Changed that, bled it and all has been well until now.
I'll replace the hose, do a pressure test and give the bleeding thing one more go (interpret as you wish). Still can't find a mechanic to touch it
Plodding on
